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The abbot of a monastery called a novice into his office and instructed him to give the sermon at the next morning’s chapel. The novice was struck with fear.

The next morning, chapel came. He stood in the pulpit. The brothers were there. His hands were trembling. His knees were knocking. His voice was quivering.

There was a long pause before he first spoke, and then he asked a question, “Do you know what I am going to say?”

They had no idea, so all of their heads went back and forth almost in unison, as if it were choreographed. He said, “Neither do I. Let’s stand for the benediction.”

The abbot was angry. He told the young novice that since he didn’t do what he was supposed to do, he was going to give the sermon the next morning at chapel. The abbot warned the young man that he’d better do a proper job or face the consequences.

The next day was almost an exact repeat of the day before. All the brothers sat there before him. His hands shook. His knees knocked. His voice trembled. Long pause. “Do you know what I’m going to say?” he asked.

Well, after the previous day’s experience, they had a pretty good idea. So all of their heads nodded yes. “Then there’s no need for me to tell you. Let’s stand for the benediction.”

The abbot was angry beyond description. He brought the young man into his office and said, “If you do that again, you are going to be in solitary confinement, eat bread and water for thirty days, and receive any other punishment I can think of. Tomorrow morning give the homily; do it right.”

The third day, chapel attendance hit an all-time high. Everyone was there to see what he would say, and it was almost an exact repeat. He stood, trembling, voice quivering, and after a long silence asked, “Do you know what I’m going to say?”

After three days of this, half of them had a pretty good idea and they nodded their heads yes. The other half noticed the switch from day-to-day, and they weren’t sure what to expect, and so they shook their heads no. The novice observed the confusion and said, “Let those who know tell those who don’t. Let us stand for the benediction.”

Application

For those of us who know the Good news about Jesus Christ and what He has done for us we should be telling those who don’t know yet.

We have been called and commanded to reach our lost peers for Christ – those who come across our natural path in life (our friends, our neighbours, our co-workers, our families and so on).

God has put us in this exact place, at this exact time for a reason – to tell others about Him!

Let those who know tell those who don’t!

***** This post is part of a blog carnival that is happening over at Peter Pollock’s blog.  Click here to read the rest of the posts!

Choose to yield first

October 18, 2011 — 20 Comments

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In the summer of 1986, two ships collided in the Black Sea off the coast of Russia. Hundreds of passengers died as they were hurled into the icy waters below.

News of the disaster was further darkened when an investigation revealed the cause of the accident. It wasn’t a technology problem like radar malfunction–or even thick fog.

The cause was human stubbornness.  Each captain was aware of the other ship’s presence nearby.  Both could have steered clear, but according to news reports, neither captain wanted to give way to the other.

Each was too proud to yield first. By the time they came to their senses, it was too late.

“Pride first, then the crash, but humility is precursor to honor.” Proverbs 18:12 (The Message)

This story resonates with me because pride has caused a lot of crashes in my life.  Crashes that were unnecessary and could have been avoided.

As a result of pride, there have been times where I have refused to say “I’m sorry” or “I was wrong” or “Please forgive me.”  Instead, I  expected the other person to “give way.”  I expected the other person to “yield first.”

And the ultimate result was some form of a “crash”. People were hurt. Relationships were damaged.  Conflicts escalated and continued on.

Choosing to yield first is not easy but it will help avoid a lot of unnecessary crashes in life.

This does mean that we are doormats and we let everyone steam roll over us.  What it means is we choose to take responsibility for our part in the situation.  We own up to what we have done to cause the problem.

Doing this helps break the deadlock.  It helps move the situation forward.  It helps begin the process of reconciliation.

Don’t let pride cause unnecessary crashes in your life!

Choose to yield first!

Do you find it hard to yield first?

***** This post is part of the blog carnival that is happening over at Peter Pollock’s blog.  Go and check out the rest of the posts!

I am sure all of us have heard this quote before.  One of its meanings is that good intentions do not always result in good outcomes because of inaction due to procrastination, laziness or something else.

Yesterday, I came across this powerful quote that speaks to this issue:

“We are not faced with the fact, my friends, that tomorrow is today. We are confronted with the fierce urgency of now. In this unfolding conundrum of life and history, there is such a thing as being too late. Procrastination is still the thief of time. Life often leaves us standing bare, naked, and dejected with a lost opportunity. The tide in the affairs of men does not remain at flood-it ebbs. We may cry out desperately for time to pause in her passage, but time is adamant to every plea and rushes on. Over the bleached bones and jumbled residues of numerous civilizations are written the pathetic words, ‘too late.’”  Martin Luther King, Jr. [HT Pete Wilson]

Often I find myself not living with a “fierce urgency of now.”

I find myself saying things like:

Tomorrow I will take my kids to the park.

Tomorrow I will call that person from church that I haven’t seen for a while.

Tomorrow I will invite my neighbour over for dinner.

Tomorrow I will begin that project that is coming up next month.

And so on and so on.

The problem is, many times, tomorrow never comes!

No matter how good my intentions are, those good intentions mean nothing unless I actually follow through with what I said I was going to do.

We need to choose to live as if “tomorrow is today”.

We need to choose to live with a “fierce urgency of now.”

We need to choose to follow through on our intentions.

We need to choose to not put off what we should be doing.

What have you been putting off to tomorrow?

***** This post is part of the blog carnival that is happening over at Peter Pollock’s blog.  Go and check out the rest of the posts!

Treasured baggage

April 5, 2011 — 18 Comments

All of us have “treasured baggage” in our lives that we choose to hold on to even though these things are detrimental to us.  We wouldn’t necessarily call these things “treasured baggage” but that is what they are.

To “treasure” something simply means to “be attached to it”.

Here is a great video that demonstrates this (sorry for the poor quality.

We choose to treasure our baggage from our childhood pain.

We choose to treasure our baggage from our financial troubles.

We choose to treasure our baggage from our marital problems.

The list could go on and on.

Instead of dealing with these areas of our lives we choose to “treasure” them in our hearts and we allow them to continue to influence who we are and the decisions that we make.

It’s time to clean out the attic!

It’s time to take that treasured baggage and put it where it belongs – in the dump!

Do you have any “treasured baggage” that needs to be thrown away?

A goal is a desired result a person or an organization envisions, plans and commits to achieve.  It is the desired end-point in some sort of assumed development. Goals are what motivate us to push ourselves to grow and move forward in life.

The problem is that many people live without having any goals and there are some dangers in living this way.

7 dangers of not having goals

  1. We can become passive.
  2. It is impossible to do any real evaluation.
  3. We can fall into the trap of doing something just for the sake of doing something and it is difficult to state why we are doing this or why we are not.
  4. We lose motivation because we are not challenged.
  5. It becomes easy to settle for a maintenance mode instead of development mode.
  6. It is easy not to plan ahead.
  7. The emphasis becomes upon activity rather than output.

I have experienced many of these dangers in my life.  I have to continue to wrestle with these dangers (sometimes daily) in order to pursue growth in my life.

Unless you have a definite, precise, clearly set goals, you are not going to realize the maximum potential that lies within you. Zig Ziglar

What are some other dangers of not having goals?

Here is a great book that I recommend:

For most of my life I struggled with accepting God’s unconditional love for me.  I could accept it intellectually but I had a hard time accepting it personally.

Because of this I had a very warped view of God.

I thought God was eagerly waiting in heaven to whack me with a big stick when I sinned.   I would literally go through my day wondering when the punishment would come and what it would be.

I also believed that God couldn’t love me for who I was.   I thought that I had to be better or get my life more in order before God could fully love me.

I believed God could only love a future version of me.

Can anyone else relate to this?

Thankfully, over the last several years, I have come to learn God doesn’t love a future version of me; He loves me right now – just as I am.

God does discipline us when we sin but He disciplines us in love because we are one of His children.

God isn’t waiting in heaven with a big stick to whack us with when we sin; He is waiting to pick us up and remind us of His unconditional love for us.

We don’t have to get our lives in order before God will love us.

If that was the case then God couldn’t love any of us  because we are all messed up!

We are all broken!

But thankfully God has chosen to love us anyway.

Now here is the most beautiful part of God’s love: God loves us as we are but He doesn’t want us to stay that way!

He wants to transform us so that we can experience life to the full!

It is in this truth that I find great comfort and encouragement and I hope that you do too.

Have you believed that God could only love a future version of you?

Here is an excellent  book that I recommend on this subject: The Search For Significance: Seeing Your True Worth Through God’s Eyes

This post is part of the Blog Carnival on the word “Future” that is happening over at Peter Pollock’s blog.  Go and check out the rest of the posts!

Renewal begins in the mind

February 8, 2011 — 26 Comments

4 years ago I began a journey of renewal in my life.  This process of renewal had to start in my mind because what I believed was affecting how I lived.

I believed the lie  “I am what I do” so I tried to find my worth and value in my job as a pastor.

I believed the lie “I’m not good enough” so I found it difficult to accept God’s unconditional love for me.

I believed the lie “This is just the way I am” so I thought it was futile to try to change.

I believed the lie “I have to be strong” so I worked hard at putting on a strong face even when I was bleeding inside.

I was living my life like these lies were true and it led to a lot of hurt and dysfunction.  So much so that I was forced to take a 3 month medical leave.

It was during my medical leave that I learned that I needed to renew my mind by taking captive every thought and making it obedient to Christ.

I began to learn to recognize the lies.

I began to learn to recognize and embrace the truth.

I began to learn to act on the truth and not the lie.

I wish I could say that I don’t believe the lies anymore but I can’t.  The big difference now is I can recognize the lies.  The tough part is choosing whether I am going to believe and act on the lie or am I going to embrace the truth and act on it.

What lies have you believed and how have they affected you?

***** This post is part of the blog carnival on “Renewal” that is happening over at Peter Pollock’s blog.  Go and check out the rest of the posts!